MENYEMBUHKAN LUKA YANG TAK TERLIHAT
Upaya Membangun Gereja Inklusif bagi Laki-Laki Korban Kekerasan dengan Perspektif Trauma-Disabilitas
Kata Kunci:
Luka Tak Terlihat, Gereja Inklusif, Laki-laki Korban Kekerasan, Perspektif Trauma-DisabilitasAbstrak
Data menunjukan bahwa tahun 2024 kasus kekerasan yang dialami laki-laki mencapai 6.894 kasus. Sayangnya lingkungan masyarakat seringkali mengabaikan laki-laki korban kekerasan, karena pandangan maskulinitas dan patriarki yang menempatkan laki-laki sebagai sosok superior. Akibatnya laki-laki korban kekerasan tidak memiliki ruang aman untuk bisa menyembuhkan luka yang ditimbulkan. Teologi trauma dan teologi disabilitas hadir sebagai upaya untuk membentuk gereja inklusif yang ramah terhadap laki-laki korban kekerasan untuk membantu mereka pulih dari lukanya. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui upaya membangun gereja inklusif bagi laki-laki korban kekerasan dengan perspektif trauma-disabilitas. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode kualitatif dengan studi pustaka. Hasil penelitian menunjukan bahwa teologi trauma dan teologi disabilitas menghadirkan paradigma baru bagi gereja untuk menerima dan membersamai para korban dalam pemulihan luka mereka. Perspektif ini juga membantu gereja inklusif untuk membuka ruang aman, menghadirkan komunitas yang suportif, dan berkontribusi dengan pihak eksternal untuk memfasilitasi proses penerimaan dan pemulihan para korban. Dengan demikian gereja dapat hadir secara aktif menjadi agen inklusif bagi laki-laki korban kekerasan
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